Feelings are sometimes tied to occasions and occasions really feel absolute.
However occasions are not often absolute. They’re nearly at all times relative.
How does this examine to what I used to be anticipating?
How does it examine to what others like me are experiencing?
How does it examine to yesterday?
Once we change the comparability, the occasion itself is modified as properly.
It’s typically troublesome to search out the relative, however that doesn’t imply it isn’t there.