Actually?
Which self?
The self you had been once you had been two years previous, nearly out of diapers?
The self you had been once you had been screaming with the followers on the large sport?
The self you had been after an extended evening?
How about this: Grow to be the self you’d be proud to be. Hang around with folks and concepts that make it easier to grow to be that self. Act like that self each probability you get.
